Very often children at slight excitement get face reddening that can be also accompanied by sweating of the face and palms and I can lead to really dramatic consequences like shyness and phobias that is why their parents should know of how to find a way out from such uncomfortable situation.
After a while this psychological structure starts to operate automatically: only one thought on outlined performance, not to mention the concrete moment of a seminar can cause reddening. Besides if the teenager reddens often enough, it has a shift of the purposes: the child doesn’t think any more of that, as though how to act – its thoughts “work” in a direction “if only not to redden!” And, certainly, it reddens! In due course situations which cause reddening, becomes more and more. The child already reddens not only in a class, but also in a circle of friends and acquaintances.
Shyness and phobia:
Shyness and fear to redden sometimes develop into a phobia. And the pavor causes very rough vegetative reaction in an organism: feeling of fever, sharp reddening and a blanching (maculae). This condition is so unpleasant that the teenager starts to panic and to be afraid of it. That it doesn’t happen, the child in every way tries to avoid the situation which have caused reddening and negative emotions: refuses to answer at lessons (even to go to school), doesn’t want to communicate with “unknown” people, and leaves the house only in the evening (at electric illumination not so crimson complexion is evident). As consequence, the teenager gets reserved, and gets gloomy and shier.
To struggle with phobias it is much more difficult than with ordinary fear and shyness. Therefore parents should pay attention to what occurs to their children, in time to assist and not to admit, that shyness has outgrown in a phobia.
What should parents do?
Shyness problem can be solved only together with parents. Therefore don’t leave the grown up child alone with its pavors, but give it your support; so you necessarily will achieve good result and will overcome any difficulties. Thus adhere to some references.
* Try, that the child has overcome exciting situation. Together with it remember, when it has reddened for the first time what he felt during this moment.
* don’t speak to the child like this is nonsense, perhaps for you it is a nonsense, but for the child it is the serious problem stirring normally to live.
* Tell to the teenager that many people sometimes redden and it is absolutely normal.
* Place priorities: together with the child disassemble, what it puts the purpose: it is good to answer at a lesson, to get acquainted with the nice girl, it is interesting to communicate with the schoolmates and there is no need to puzzle over that if the face will redden this time or not?
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